Tuesday, May 03, 2005

Mastermind....

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9 Comments:

At 8:21 pm, Anonymous Hannah said...

I wonder if they need a child host too...??!!

 
At 9:03 pm, Blogger Qalballah said...

It made me chuckle actually as the first person who popped into my head when I read that article was B.... LOL Aw...

 
At 9:03 pm, Blogger Qalballah said...

Can you imagine the questions she'd come out with though :S

 
At 9:35 pm, Anonymous hannah said...

Yes, unfortunately I can imagine exactly what questions she would be asking.

Actually could shoot myself in the head...just had a conversatiin with my mum and she asked how I was coping during the day. I innocently answered that in all honesty I was finding B's behaviour most challenging because she was so 'in yer face' and what with b.feeding and all I was feeling a little chlostrophobic.

'Well, to be honest I think you'll have to send her to school in september, I think she needs more input.'

And, apart from to say 'there's no way that's going to happen' I couldn't say anything else because all I was thinking was 'I can't believe I walkled into THAT'

Now of course I want to ring her back and say
'yes mum, you are right...when I'm struggling with my children the obvious answer is to push them away from me to confirm all their most subconcious fears, for me not to understand my child but allow a stranger to deal with her so I can have some 'me time' in the day. And then I'll expect her to go back to happy old her when she gets home.' NOT

sigh...that feels better.

 
At 9:37 pm, Anonymous hannah said...

P.S ...sorry to rant in your comments!!! I know, I know get your own rant space!

 
At 9:45 pm, Blogger Qalballah said...

*Pats head* it's alright dear. We can share this blog space there's enough room for two spleens. I actually have different "in yer face" issues... in that Boss *is* in my face - full speed wallop in my face from the other side of the room marginally missing knocking my teeth out... but I'm getting the WHY thing too now as well ;-)

Next your Mum says that you could always say "Yeah - I could send them to school ... OR ... you could come and take them for a couple of days if you like ..."

 
At 4:58 am, Anonymous hannah said...

....and watch her turn green and run away?! LOL.

Just been through my calendar and read quote ...(pre-printed, not my own!)

“Enjoy every minute of their little voices because one day you will be wishing you could hear them and they won't be there."

Very hormonal mother not needing that kind of guilt trip thank you very much... I'll just go and smoother myself with a pillow

 
At 2:00 pm, Blogger Qalballah said...

Well you have good days and bad days... its getting that in perspective which is hard :S I am sure soon you'll have the urge to have a real B bonding session soon and all will be well insha'allah.

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Or there's the adoption agency.... :P

 
At 7:25 pm, Blogger merry said...

Oh goodness to the quote! And rats to the mother remark!!!!

 

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